:: My Drama-Rama Mind ::

:: BGR ::

I seem to b hearing the same case scenario over and over. and i'm curious as to how many versions of advice/answers there can be. Come on everyone & anyone, flood my comments! Lemme do a study of human behaviour for the thing called LOVE.

"Boy and girl haf been tgt for years.. they've gone thru a lot to find the stability they now have in their r'ship. However, it didn't come easy.. it was thru countless quarrels and many sleepless nights tt they resolved the differences between them. and a couple of break ups too. The quarrels have strained the r'ship so bad that even tho Boy and Girl do love each other, a lot of things haf just become numb. They quarrel less now cuz Boy dun wanna quarrel anymore. He will give in to her even tho it makes him unhappy. All the things that used to mean so much to Boy, now jus doesn't anymore cuz Girl doesn't like to be grilled abt the nitty-gritty details. Boy used to do everything his way in the r'ship. But now, he knos tt if he doesn't start doing it her way, the r'ship will die in a matter of time. So even tho the r'ship is smoothsailing on the outside, Boy is truly unhappy on the inside. But he jus wants Girl to be happy.

Boy forces himself to b disinterested in the things tt r gg on in Girl's life, so tt when he finds out abt things tt Girl doesn't tell him, he wun hurt so bad. Day by day, Boy starts to realli become disinterested in Girl's life. He doesn't question her on where she goes or what she does. He doesn't get angry if he finds out things tt Girl hasn't been sharing with him but with her friends and family. It used to bother Boy so much tt Girl spends so much time at work, now Boy spends his time and concentration on his work too.

Angel was a fren Boy met before he met Girl. But angel had a bf then when Boy fell in love with her. So Boy forced himself to distant from her and eventually met Girl. Few years later, he met Angel again. This time, Angel is single and has fallen in love with Boy. They hit it off realli well and just when Boy is tired of pretending to be happy with Girl and how she wants to run the r'ship, Girl is showing positive vibes abt the r'ship. She starts to spend more time with Boy, give in more to Boy and even rejects her friends' offers to go out. Instead, she spends her weekends with Boy.

Angel knos tt Boy has a gf and she does not want to spoil things for Boy. But everytime Angel sees Boy, she can't help but light up with a smile in her eyes and allow herself to enjoy the company of Boy.

Boy found out from frens tt Angel liked Boy years ago when they met, but as she was attached, she did not want to complicate things. This time round, the tables were turned.. and there was nothing anyone could do abt the situation.

Angel will be gg away for work in a few months time, but will return in 2 years. Boy knows tt if it doesn't happen this time, it wud not happen 2 years later. But Boy is also aware tt what is gg on between him and Girl is part and parcel of being in a r'ship. tt all r'ships haf the same problems. Or do they? Wud it be better with someone else? But Boy is already so used to being with Girl.. wud he be able to go into a new r'ship is give his all again without holding back for fear of hurt?

Question is, wat wud u do if u were Boy?"

posted by Mrs. Lee @ 10:48 AM