:: My Drama-Rama Mind ::

:: To Cheat is the Nature of Men ::

偷吃是男人的本性, 怀疑男人会偷吃是女人的天性.

If you dun understand mandarin, the above says, "To cheat is the nature of Men, to be suspicious of Men cheating is the nature of Women."

and i used to live by tt theory, until my bf knocked some sense into me. i do agree tt we can't judge a whole population by the majority of how they behave. it is not fair to the minority. it alwaes isn't.

but how do u want me to believe otherwise, when there r cheating cases in my face all the time? i nv realli hated Men, but after hearing abt wat happened to a dear fren, who is too blinded by love (hereby named TBBL), i cannot say tt i love all Men. Literally, i only love one.

TBBL met Men Species A (hereby named MSA). They went on to date, and eventually moved in tgt into a rented flat. After less than 3 months, TBBL got pregnant. MSA had previously promised tt if TBBL got pregnant, he wud most gladly marry her. And guess wat, when she told him of the "good news", and asked, "so wat shud we do now?" he replied bluntly with, "it's up to u." So much for wanting to marry her. not exactly a very smart answer, very irresponsible too.

if i were in her shoes, i wud definitely not choose to haf the baby. not tt i think terminating the pregnancy is an ethical thing to do, if it happened to my bf and me, we wud definitely haf the baby, cuz i kno he is the right man for me to start a family with. on top of tt, he wud nv ask of me to do such an unethical act, after having been tgt for more than 3 years. but given TBBL's circumstance and situation, (come on, they been tgt for less than 3 months!) i wud think tt there is no other choice but to terminate it. wat if after she chooses to haf the baby, the guy wants to have nothing to do with her..? after all, he's made it clear, "it's up to you" aka "it's your choice". you decide to have it, you bear with the consequences. i wud not haf my dear fren go thru this alone. not only will she ruin an innocent life, she is ruining her own. out of the 2 terrible options, she decided to go ahead to terminate the pregnancy.

not only did the guy not accompany her for consultation and the actual surgery, he didn't even pay for it. i accompanied her for all the consultations as well as the surgery.. and i felt so upset for her yet there was nothing i cud do. crude as it may sound, all this becuz of a fcuking horny guy who cudn't think with anything but his dumb stick. how hard issit to NOT get someone pregnant? IT ISN'T! such guys r simply not considerate enuff or simply, too dumb to think of consequences. which is why i will nv date a guy has made girls pregnant b4. it is such a telling sign of his maturity and responsibility.

less than a week after the trauma was over, i had a call from TBBL. she was sobbing over the phone and cud not talk for the 1st 5 min. the horrible things tt went thru my mind for that 5 min, were jus so torturing. "wat cud haf possibly been worse now? the 'problem' is oredi solved. wat now..?"

until she blurted out, "he's married".

I CANNOT EXPLAIN THE ANGER TT WENT THRU ME LIKE A SHOCK.

wat is the fcuking assh*le trying to do?! MSA was married all along and he had the cheek to fool ard and even to the extent of impregnating someone else! SHAMELESS! tt wud explain why he cud not marry my fren as promised b4 and y he did not accompany her to the doctor's. probably afraid of being seen. WAT AN ABSOLUTE & TOTAL JERK.

and u think such things only happened in soap pperas.

nothing i said cud haf comforted TBBL. she had gone thru all tt trauma for nothing.

which brings me to the big question: WHY DO MEN CHEAT?

the only logical answer i haf, is tt they r horny. for some strange reason, their wife whom they gave up their freedom to marry, whom they promised to honour and respect, suddenly lost their appeal.

these very men, r giving marriage such a bad name. and as well as those men who actually do respect and honour their wives under all circumstances and wud give up almost anything to make their wives happy.

why oh why do Men cheat?

Will Men ever understand the true meaning of marriage? tt Women are willing to give up their looks and status in society to bear chidren and start a family with the Man they love?

why do God allow such Men to exist in the world..? to accentuate the good ones? i realli dun understand.

wateva the case, i believe in karma. it is something no one can run away from. and MSA is gonna get it ten fold.

Assh*le.

posted by Mrs. Lee @ 3:12 PM